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It Is Not Your Fault.

This post is about the women who suffer violence. No woman should ever suffer it. On social media, on social networks, in the media, in the newspaper, you will read or see at least one case of violence every day. Most often, we read about violence in the family. The violence is not just physical contact, but also psychological violence.

Women suffer violence in silence mostly because of fear or because of the children. No one’s talking about it, because of the shame; what will your neighbors say about it, your friends, your family? It is a big problem, because people judge.

Very often we hear someone saying, “It is her fault, she asked for it.” Because of that, women would rather suffer in silence and hide it with make-up, a fake smile etc. That is wrong. People will be always like that, they will always judge, but we must think about ourselves.

Another reason for their silence is fear. Most women think if they say something, it will only get worse. When it happens the first time, whether the violence is physical or psychological, you should immediately react. We all think it happened just once, and that it is not going to happen again. But, if it happened once, and no one reacted, then it will likely be repeated.

Because of that, the most important thing to do is to react immediately. Today, there are safe houses that help women in situations like that. There are a lot of cases where women were victims of violence and they contacted the police or went to a safe house, and it saved their lives.

Women should be strong, and say no to violence. Don’t be afraid, you are a woman and you are strong. You deserve to run your life the way you want.

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Soft Heart. Stubborn Mind.

It is hard to sync your heart and your head. Your good, soft heart is ready to help anyone. Your soft heart will let anyone take advantage of it. But your mind plays a completely different game.

Your heart wants to let people get to know what you are really like, but your stubborn mind built this harsh exterior as a protection from getting hurt.

Your mind is slowing you down. It’s making you think things through. It is stubborn as hell. Your mind is preventing your heart; it’s preventing you from doing what you really want. It’s preventing you from showing the real you, not the rational you.

They aren’t even aware that if they scratch a bit underneath that icy surface, they will find a volcano waiting to erupt.

When your mind is in control, you are an assertive, independent girl who knows what she wants. You are bold and you are not afraid to say whatever is on your mind. But once your soft heart prevails and takes the wheel, you turn into the softest and most beautiful creature, full of love, ready to be given to the one who deserves it.

When you fall in love, you love with every inch of your body. Your love is unconditional. Your love is everlasting. It’s hard to get you to open up and completely trust someone. It’s hard for you to let yourself go and turn off the rational part of you and just love. But, once you do, it’s forever.

Your stubborn mind is making you look like you are not interested in anyone, when in reality, you just built a huge wall around you to protect your little, soft heart. Guys don’t approach you because they’re afraid of that cold and harsh exterior of yours.

Your biggest problem is that your stubborn mind stands in your way to happiness. It doesn’t allow you to love someone the way you want. It doesn’t allow your soft heart to come out and take over.

Your mind makes you worry all the time. It makes you overanalyze things. It makes you create a problem where there’s none. Calm down a bit and let your heart have a chance.

Let your heart decide for a change. Nothing horrible will happen, I promise you.

The best thing you could do is to find some kind of a balance between your heart and your mind. You cannot stop thinking completely – you should just take it down a notch. Don’t be sooo stubborn. Don’t look at everything from a strictly rational point of view.

No matter what you do, life will take its own course. But don’t you think it would be better to sail through life with a heart full of love, rather than with a stubborn mind?