Stay Single Until…

Stay single until you meet a girl who learns to appreciate all you have to give. 

Someone who looks at your kindness and respect not as a sign of weakness, but something to admire.

Stay single until you meet a girl who doesn’t call you clingy when you show her you’re interested.

Someone who won’t put you in the friend zone for it.

But someone who values it and reciprocates it.

Stay single until you meet a girl who has her head on her shoulders.

She has a career. She has goals. She has actual interests that are more than Sunday brunch. 

Someone who knows what she wants and where she’s going.

Stay single until you meet a girl with self-respect and standards.

Someone who doesn’t have to be drunk to be with you and knows when to call it quits.

Stay single until you meet a girl who can take care of herself and isn’t looking for you to do that.

Someone who has their shit together.

Stay single until you meet a girl who loves herself.

And that means taking care of herself physically, emotionally and mentally.

Someone who stands beside you in a room and you think you are the lucky one because she’s so beautiful.

Stay single until you meet someone who is whole by themselves.

Someone who isn’t looking at you to love them to fill some void.

Stay single until you meet someone who is over their ex.

The girl whose vocabulary does not include the word jealous.

Because when you are confident, you aren’t comparing yourself to anyone.

Someone with standards.

The girl who won’t tolerate you canceling last minute. 

The girl who won’t give you the light of day if you disrespect her for a moment.

The girl who doesn’t wait around for you to make up your mind.

Stay single until you meet a girl and you know you have to act fast with or someone else will.

The girl who ends an actual date at the front door, which you respect, but you walk away craving just seeing her again. 

Stay single until you meet a girl you’d proudly introduce to your parents.

Someone who values family and that girl you could see yourself maybe one day building your own family with.

Stay single until you meet a girl who goes out of her way to do things for you.

Not because you aren’t capable, but because she enjoys it.

Stay single until you meet the girl you actually want to listen to.

Someone who spoils you with gestures.

Someone who surprises you.

Someone who makes an effort to show you she cares.

Stay single until you meet a girl who actually wants to make you dinner.

Because it isn’t just about where you take her out to eat or if you pay, but there’s something special about a girl who cares enough to cook for you.

Stay single until you meet a girl who heals any pain you hung onto in the past.

Making you really appreciate how things turned out.

Stay single until you meet a girl who makes you genuinely happy. 

Like you look over at her laying next to you sleeping and there isn’t anyone better.

When you look at her just doing something small like cleaning the dishes or just watching T.V and you think she’s the most beautiful person in the entire world and she’s not even trying.

Stay single until you meet a girl who is your best friend.

Your favorite company.

Someone who has this ability to make you the happiest person, but she has her moments of making you angry too.

Stay single until you meet a girl you can’t stay mad at.

The one who makes you address whatever problem you have and you work through it.

Stay single until you meet the girl who shows you, fighting doesn’t mean it’s over. But something you’ll overcome together.

Stay single until you meet someone who makes you scratch your head as to why she’s still single. 

Someone who suddenly makes you listen to those really corny songs.

Someone who makes you realize what being in love actually means.

Stay single until you find yourself doing really crazy things for her.

Driving hours just to see her for a few.

But regardless of how crazy it may seem to anyone else, it makes sense to you.

Because she’s the one you stay up at night thinking about.

Stay single until you meet a girl who isn’t afraid to say I love you first. 

And you take her hand and slow dance or do anything really cliche that you might have made fun of your friends for, but you get it now.

Stay single until you meet a girl who walks into your life and you can’t let her walk out unless it’s with your hand in hers.

Stay single until you meet a girl who doesn’t make you fear the future.

Someone you want to create a life with.

Stay single until you meet a girl who makes you think twice about the words “I do.”

Until then, stay single.



You Don’t Care About Her.

You don’t care about her if you can be in the same place and ignore her.

You don’t care about her if you can stand next to her looking at her like she’s a stranger. 

And not someone you talk to almost every day.

Not someone who knows you better than every stranger in the room.

Not someone who took the time to get to know you to the core of who you are.

You don’t care about her if you can blatantly disrespect her and not feel bad about it.

Even though she’s done nothing but treat you well all the time.

You don’t care about her if you pick and choose when to answer.

Even though she answers every fucking time.

You don’t care about her if you blow her off and cancel last minute like you do so often.

Even though she’s busier than you and doesn’t have the time.

She makes the time and that’s the difference.

You don’t care about her if you don’t appreciate the fact she’s included you in everything.

Even though the thought has never crossed your mind to invite her somewhere.

You don’t care about her if you are doing something kind to justify mistreatment later.

You don’t care about her if you are just using her.

Physically. If you can take her home and fuck her and leave the next day not feeling even a little bit guilty, you don’t care.

Because you know how she feels about you.

Emotionally. Don’t rely on her as some emotional pillar when things go wrong because when she needs you, you leave.

You don’t care if you’re making her some option when all she’s done is make you a priority and put you first.

Don’t keep hurting her and breaking her heart just because yours isn’t whole. 

Don’t take everything she’s willing to give and walk away with it.

If you don’t actually care about her, don’t touch her. Because everything about your touch leaves her tainted and empty.

If you don’t actually care don’t talk to her like your best friends then treat her badly.

You don’t get to have only an emotional relationship with her.

Don’t treat her like shit just because you know she won’t throw it back at you.

And don’t give her attitude like she’s the crazy one when she’s finally had enough.

When she gets frustrated and confused and starts a fight.

Don’t drop off the radar without explaining why then come waltzing back like it’s nothing.

Because it hurts like hell caring for someone who can’t make up their mind about where you stand.

If you are going to leave, stay gone. 

If you want to stay then put at least half amount of effort in a relationship with her you probably don’t deserve.

Because the moment she stops trying, this ends.

One day she’ll make the choice to stop caring.

And it’ll break her heart to walk away from you and choose to be strangers.

Because the task of unknowing someone who has touched your heart so deeply is impossible. 

But she deserves a love that fills her.

She deserves someone who cares.

And if you can’t be that person, let her find someone who can.

But keeping her in this limbo until you make up your indecisive mind of liking her one minute and hating her the next, it’s not fair.

She’s always deserved more than you. It’s just something both of you guys have yet to realize.